Break the Cycle of Relationship Anxiety, For Good
Feel calm, confident, and secure in your relationship, without needing constant reassurance (or years of therapy).
"Erin is patient and has a client first approach. I appreciated her listening and providing the opportunity to practice new skills."
You Love Your Partner,
So Why Are You Still Filled With Doubt?
Does any of this sound a little too familiar?
• You replay conversations, reread texts, and dissect every word and ton
• You’ve taken every quiz about attachment styles and red flags.
• You constantly wonder: Is this real love? Or just fear of being alone?
• You cycle between “Do I love them enough?” and “Am I just afraid to leave?” Sometimes in the same day.
• You crave clarity, but your mind won’t give you a break
This kind of mental tug-of-war might feel private, but it’s actually incredibly common for women dealing with relationship OCD.
This Program Is For You If:
You're a high-performing woman who:
• Appears put-together on the outside but constantly questions her relationship.
• Seeks answers but ends up more confused and exhausted.
• Wants real tools, not just vague advice to "stop overthinking."
This Program Is Not For You If:
You're someone who:
• Is looking for a quick fix.
• Isn't ready to do the work to understand and change old patterns.
What You'll Learn:
Trust Your Partner's Words
Imagine feeling secure enough to take their words at face value. No need for constant reassurance.
Feel Secure & Confident
Wake up feeling calm and secure, knowing your thoughts aren't running the show.
Stop Overanalyzing Every Little Detail
No more checking their socials every few minutes or replaying every conversation in your mind.
We don’t just manage the symptoms.
We treat the root.
This program was built by someone who’s been exactly where you are.
Inside, you won’t just learn how to cope. You’ll learn how to change the pattern.
Silence your inner critic that makes you question your worth and your partner’s intentions so you can build trust
Break free from unhealthy patterns of overthinking and reassurance-seeking without feeling like you’re losing control
Respond calmly instead of emotionally during arguments. No more spiraling into doubt or replaying every word afterward
Find clarity in your feelings without needing to ask for advice or search for endless reassurance from friends, family, or online
Trust yourself to make decisions about your relationship, without worrying you’ll ruin everything by overthinking
Rebuild self-confidence that lasts beyond fleeting moments, so you can finally feel secure in your relationship and grounded in yourself
Meet Your Coach
Erin Davis, Relationship Coach & Therapist
I’m Erin Davis, a licensed therapist and relationship coach.
Over the past 14 years, I’ve helped over 750 women break free from the cycle of self-doubt and emotional exhaustion in their relationships.
But I didn’t just study this work, I lived it.
For years, I believed I was "too much" to be loved. I overanalyzed every relationship, convinced myself I was failing when things weren’t perfect, and second-guessed every emotion.
My brain was a 24/7 interrogation room:
• What would happen if we broke up?
• Am I coming across as too needy?
• What if he doesn’t really love me?
I was desperate for someone to tell me I’d made the right choice.
And I almost lost a man who truly loved me, my husband.
We met in college at a beach club. He was a little tipsy, throwing up NC State’s Wolfpack hand sign, and... Somehow, decided to kiss my little wolfpack hand with his. Yep, that was our first moment.
But even then, I doubted. Even though he was kind, stable, and treated me better than anyone ever had, my brain kept asking:
• What if he’s not attracted to me?
• Am I better than his ex?
• Will he leave if I mess up?
I nearly sabotaged something good more times than I can count.
If I hadn’t done the work to understand my thoughts, rewire my anxious brain, and learn how to trust myself instead of my fear, I might have lost him.
Instead, we got married, moved to Europe, and spent three years traveling...
Riding gondolas in Venice, climbing castles in Germany, and (questionable life decision) hiking the Eiffel Tower while I was six months pregnant.
Yes, I hiked the Eiffel Tower while 6 months pregnant.
No, I wouldn’t recommend it.
But honestly? That wasn't the hardest climb I've ever done.
The real work was internal.
• How to trust my own mind.
• Learning how to stop questioning a good thing.
• And how to feel secure in my relationship without needing constant proof.
That’s the transformation I want for you, too.
You don’t have to keep second-guessing your relationship, or yourself.
The same tools that helped me quiet my inner critic, rebuild self-trust, and stop spiraling are the ones I teach inside this program.
That’s why I created a framework that doesn’t just help you cope, it helps you change.
Let me introduce you to the method that’s helped hundreds of women go from anxious to anchored:
The PEACE Method
A simple 3-step framework for showing up calm, confident & secure in your relationship:
Phase 1: Foundations of Confidence
(Weeks 1-4)
In the first month, we’ll lay the groundwork for lasting mental transformation.
• Get grounded in your values and relationship goals
• Identify unhealthy doubt vs. healthy discernment
• Start practicing present-moment awareness
Phase 2: Rewriting Your Story
(Weeks 5-8)
This is where the real magic happens.
• Reframe your anxious thoughts
• Build emotional regulation skills
• Learn communication tools to set boundaries & express needs
Phase 3: Living in Love & Confidence
(Weeks 9-12)
In the final phase, you’ll solidify your transformation and prepare for lasting success.
• Cultivate self-worth and trust
• Build rituals to deepen love and connection
• Create a long-term confidence plan
Here's Everything You Get Inside:
12 Weeks of Live Coaching
Valued at $2,500
Step-by-step lessons designed to help you break free from overthinking and feel confident in your relationships.
Lifetime Access to all Resources
Valued at $6,000+
Revisit the recorded sessions and other resources anytime to refresh your skills and continue your progress.
Expert Guided Exercises
Valued at $1,000+
Gain practical, tailored strategies designed by relationship experts and therapists to calm your mind and strengthen the relationship with your true love.
Access to a Private Community
Valued at $750
Connect with like-minded women for encouragement, accountability, and shared growth. Stay connected in the community for ongoing support and mentor newcomers!
Let's be real, to get great results, you need tools outside of the program. That's why you also get access to:
Over $1,000 in BONUSES:
Guided Journals
Guided journals to help you set clear intentions and turn your relationship goals into reality. Full of practical prompts.
Private 1:1 Call
A free 30-minute one-on-one session with me when you pay in full. Let's get you started on the right path.
Guided Worksheets
Practical exercises designed to break the cycle of overthinking and help you find clarity and peace of mind.
Become A Founding Member Today, and get lifetime access for just $2,997 $1,997!
Here's What Happens When You Join:
Enroll Instantly
No application needed.
Just choose your payment option and you're in.
Get Immediate Access
Jump into the private community and course materials right away.
Schedule Your 1:1 Call
Book your bonus session with me
(for pay-in-full members) and start your transformation.
Still have questions? I've got answers.
Here are Some of the Most
Frequently Asked Questions
What Exactly is Obsess Less, Love More?
The Obsess Less, Love More program is a specialized coaching program designed to help individuals struggling with Relationship OCD (ROCD). It provides evidence-based strategies, expert guidance, and tools to navigate doubts, build confidence, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Who is This Program For?
This program is for anyone experiencing obsessive thoughts, fears, or doubts about their relationship, whether it's questioning their partner's love, compatibility, or their own feelings. It’s perfect for those ready to address these challenges and build stronger connections.
How Does it Work?
The program includes structured sessions focusing on evidence-based techniques such as cognitive-behavioral strategies, mindfulness, and self-compassion exercises. Participants will learn to challenge intrusive thoughts, reduce anxiety, and foster emotional resilience.
Is This Therapy or Coaching?
Obsess Less, Love More is a coaching program, not therapy. It focuses on providing tools, education, and strategies to navigate Relationship OCD. If you're looking for therapy, visit www.valuedriventherapy.com to review therapy services with Erin Davis.
When are the meetings?
Our weekly meetings happen on Mondays from 12 noon to 1:30pm EST. This is a private meeting over Zoom. You are allowed to attend 12 consecutive meetings. Due to the confidentiality of the group, calls are not recorded.
Ready to Stop Spinning and Start Feeling Secure?
Become a Founding Member today and get lifetime access for just $2,997 $1,997.
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